Tonight's dinner was courtesy of Rachel. She decided what we were having, shopped for the groceries, and made the lasagna and garlic bread. (With a little help)
But first let me back up. We had all been a bit lazy this summer...with the possible exception of Dusty. The housework had been neglected. the laundry backed up, and toys seemed to find their way all over the house. So 2 weeks ago we instituted what I jokingly referred to as "The New World Order"! I found a book called "Cleaning House: A Mom's 12 Month Experiment to Rid Her House of Youth Entitlement"
I highly recommend it! The author has 5 children and was tired of the attitude that everything should be done for them and they didn't have to do anything to help out. She came up with a list of 12 things the kids should know before leaving home. They were
1. how to make a bed and maintain an orderly room
2. how to cook and clean a kitchen
3. How to do yard work
4. how to clean a bathroom
5. how to get a job...outside the home
6. how to do laundry
7. how to do handyman jobs
8. how to host a party
9. how to work together
10. how to run errands
11. how to put others first through service
12. how to act mannerly
I gave both of the kids a jar. In Aaron's I put 30 one dollar bills and in Rachel's she got 50 cents for each day of the month. If they do what's expected for the day they get to keep their money. If not, I get the money. What's left at the end of the month they get to keep. The difference has been night and day. When they leave for school the beds are made, the bathroom and bedroom floors are picked up and their toys and clothes are not strung through the house. We will keep adding expectations. This week they were each expected to be in charge of an evening meal. Up tonight was Rachel. She decided that she wanted to make lasagna and garlic bread. I had her make a grocery list and took her to Kroger after school. She learned where to find things in the grocery store and how to look at the prices. She filled up the cart and scanned her items and then put them away at home.


She jumped right into making her meal and with a few exceptions she prepared everything. (I helped out with some of the cutting and getting things in and out of the oven.) She even learned about calling the neighbor to bail you out after you realize that you are out of foil! After setting the table, she was excited for everyone to dig in. And everyone had seconds so it was a success!
After packing up some leftovers for Daddy's lunch, she also learned that there are dishes to be done after the meal is over. :)
She was quite proud of what she accomplished. Aaron is up for Thursday's meal. If he had his way it would be steak, steak, and more steak! I'm giving him a budget! :)